[quote="Captain Wilkins":1c0ec][quote="Big Jake":1c0ec]yeah I know there is other fish but
you know she is perfect..just totally perfect...I fell for her hard..lol
I'm fucked..time to get the alcohol[/quote:1c0ec]
You think she's perfect. Hell, a part of me (No, not THAT part oOo: ) still thinks the girl that dumped me a year ago was perfect. But, in time, you'll move on, and find another lucky Lass who will make you just as happy. Who knows? The current Miss Right might even change her mind biggrin:

However, i do know from long experience that if you're feeling down, Alcohol won't improve the situation. it's a depressant, and it'll just make you feel worse. Go and hang out with a mate, that usually fixes me up biggrin:[/quote:1c0ec]

lol thanks man, but I'm in the military and all my friends are in the desert, the only reason I'm here is I fucked up my back in a training accident about 2 yrs back...I can't go nowhere..so yeah..it blows a fat one

now why does this situation sound familiar??? oOo:

i went through the exact same thing, except she waited for like 8 months to tell me the "let's just be friends" thing. no matter what others say i can promise you this: YOU WILL GET OVER IT.

b/c i sure as hell did..... against all odds, i did. trust me on this one.

[quote="con Brio":a83ef]now why does this situation sound familiar??? oOo:

i went through the exact same thing, except she waited for like 8 months to tell me the "let's just be friends" thing. no matter what others say i can promise you this: YOU WILL GET OVER IT.

b/c i sure as hell did..... against all odds, i did. trust me on this one.[/quote:a83ef]

Thanks man..I still think I need to invest in a good blow doll though...just for times like these

Well when something like that happens, be straight-forward with her and tell her what you're really feeling.

just find some other girl to tide you over...I'm sure there are plenty to pick from.

Everyone's copped it at some point...but it always feels uniquely worse when it happens to you...

She knows how I feel, to quote her but she says she doesn't feel like she is putting as much into it as I am

[quote="Big Jake":8f9f3] She knows how I feel, to quote her but she says she doesn't feel like she is putting as much into it as I am[/quote:8f9f3]

Then i guess it comes down to how much patience you have in waiting for her to get her shit together biggrin:

"Tiiiiiiiime is on my side, yes it is..."

if she doesn't want the relationship, then it just won't happen. it's unfortuante but the person who does not want the realtionship to work usually gets his/her way. u will overcome this one day, and you'll back on it and tell yourself that you were crazy to ever have wanted her....

but in the meantime this is what you do....

you go and bitch about it to your close male friends and tell them everything you feel. try to avoid being by yourself as it will only make you think to yourself about her too much....

think about her, but be realistic: in the remaining years of your life that you have on this planet, will you meet another girl who will make you smile again? of course you will....

just remember to ENJOY YOURSELF, and HAVE FUN in times where you can feel like crap like right now. you want more insight then PM me

[quote="Captain Wilkins":088ec][quote="Big Jake":088ec] She knows how I feel, to quote her but she says she doesn't feel like she is putting as much into it as I am[/quote:088ec]

Then i guess it comes down to how much patience you have in waiting for her to get her shit together biggrin:

"Tiiiiiiiime is on my side, yes it is..."[/quote:088ec]

Yeah, I bet she's a very confused girl. In fact I wouldn't be suprised if she becomes a fur trader in the near future.

Thanks guys I appreciate all your insights in this. I know you all don't get this enough, but you are abunch of great guys.
I think I'm going to head over to a friends house and chill for the night over there.

Thanks again
Jake

Yeah go for a long walk too, it helps me sort shit out.

[quote=Innoxx][quote="Captain Wilkins":3f05e]Then i guess it comes down to how much patience you have in waiting for her to get her shit together biggrin:

"Tiiiiiiiime is on my side, yes it is..."[/quote:3f05e]

Yeah, I bet she's a very confused girl. In fact I wouldn't be suprised if she becomes a fur trader in the near future.[/quote:3f05e]

AHAHAHAHAHAHA. Christ, you don't pull any punches, do you, Innoxx?

try eating some cookies

[quote="Big Jake":274cc]Thanks guys I appreciate all your insights in this. I know you all don't get this enough, but you are abunch of great guys.
I think I'm going to head over to a friends house and chill for the night over there.

Thanks again
Jake[/quote:274cc]

Sounds like a plan. Good Luck in the future, old bean angel: