you have to overide yourself of your shyness. Most girls tend to not express their liking for you. These two that you found out like you, during this time other girls could of liked you as well.

Just don't be afraid of rejection and you'll find someone.

hey at least i admit it....hand is popular choice

just be yourself...as long as youre not a freak. High school girls are not going to tell you how they feel at first, because they are just as shy as you. Don't be so picky about the girls you hang out with, the more you date, the more you will understand them. Don't be a so called 'player' or you will just earn a reputation of being an asshole and will have to go to another school. An important thing: dont play their games, it will just make all your actions filled with drama and distract you from everything else.

Girlfriends are nice, but they're not the Be-all and end-all. I changed my personality and morality for a girl once, and i assure you it didn't work well at all.

Hang in there, old boy. If you're a good bloke, a girl will eventually cotton onto it. However. being in Year 9 (or the '9th Grade' as you chaps call it rolleyes: ) You're hardly over the hill :P. Good things come to those who wait.

I am amazed no one flamed this one... amazed. good work guys, you DO have hearts rock:

anyway, just be confident and be yourself, for if a girl does like who you really are, its not worth going after. i always just layed low and let whatever happens happen, and i've found a good one.... you don't need to be too aggressive, unless you just want sex, and i don't reccomend that one either. good luck guy.

hake:

One word... BEER.

Punky's gonna flame me for this one, but I think we had both had a couple of drinks when we met, and If we hadn't, we had a lot of drinks after that

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i used to be the same way about chicks. now i have a bunch of friends that are girls. girls/women dig cute shit, dont try to be macho, or cuss alot for no reason. just be yourself, hell thats what i did.


one of my chick friends ive known for 5 years, i want to ask her out, but scared what might happen if she refuses...we might look at eachother differently. i dont know... i might. so confused... *like anybody cares*[/quote:127f7]

There's a reason these chicks are just your friends... girls don't want nice guys, they want to be friends with nice guys.

Girls want confidence.

That's why guys always say "What is she doing with that asshole"

The answer: Because what you see as him being an asshole (which he very well may be) She sees him as being confident (right or wrong)

Just be yourself around them. Your in the 9th grade right? So you can afford to do this. Even if you act immature, they probaly won't even notice

hake:

dont et girlfriends. Have random sxual acts wiht people you hardly know....Or if you do want a girlfriend Like everyone said dont be an ass. Show some balls(not literally unless shes a slut then youll at least get head unless your fucking tiny) And dont just walk up to them and ask em to be your girlriend. ask em out to a movie or something. gOd I wish I followed my own advice...Im in your boat got a girl I like right now but I never see her except for like one day a week oOo:

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sounds like your better off with Miss Michigan for a while

drop a credit card in front of her and ask her to pick it up girls like card with shinny numbers

thanks guys, Oh and tommarow my friend is going to intruduce me to a few Hot girls. Also i would like to say i am not ghetto and don't want to be i like classical music so i am the calm type in talking.