I've just done my RSA (Responsible service of Alcohol) Certificate, and the resounding thing they taught us about Alcoholics, and it relates also to Drug Addicts, is, the simple fact of the matter is You can't force help onto someone, they have to want to be helped. I know you love her, and this must be heartbreaking, but there's nothing you can do right now. All you can do is wait and pray she sees reason, then help her pick up the pieces.

Good Luck, old boy. You seem pretty mature, so she's lucky she's got someone like you keeping an eye on her angel:

SOMEONE"S GONNA DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

...or at least wish they were dead when I get through with them!!!

Someone attacked my ex last night, grabed her from behind, through her to the ground, and kicked her many times!!! mad: mad: Then he told her that I asked him to do this!!!!!! mad: mad: mad: I would never hurt her like that!!!! mad: mad: mad: When I find him.... I'm not going to kill him, but he's gonna wish I did!!!!!! mad: mad: mad: mad:

Redhawk....



Go....




POSTAL!

I'm about to! Once I find out who it was! I talked to her, she has no clue who it was, but it's obviously someone who knows both of us, and doesn't quite want her to hang out with me anymore! Argh! Who could it be... Who could hate me and her being friends that much... Who... DEAN!!!! He hates use being friends, knows both of us, and knows where she lives and that she walks home from school everyday!!! God, if he set this up, I WILL KILL HIM!!!! mad: mad: No one beats her like that!!

shes only 16 and hes in his twenties? you know who to call on this and if its a serious problem like you are saying..i wouldnt hesitate. knowing that when you do this she might hate your guts for now...but you might be doing everyone involved in this a favor. shes 16 and sounds very irrational. hes 23 and is obviously not thinking with the right head. hell, even the right head is probably all f*cked up for the same reasons your worrying about with her. call them man..or walk away and dont look back. those are the only two otpions i see. i will say this..i know how hard it is to walk way..but all she is doing is hurting you and herself. so do both. call the P and lodge a complaint. than..walk away and dont look back. the next thing i say prolly isnt what you want to hear. oh well, you asked. walk away and dont look back. your doing yourself know good and this is a baaaaaad situation. she will ultimatly do whatever she wants to do without giving two shits what you think or care. its a sign brother. walk away....dont look back. move on.

oh..and the thing about him not drugging..she is trying to make this guy look good. you can take a ball of shizzie and clean it up, polish it, paint it..but in the end..its a ball of shizzie. shes justifying herself in what it is that she is wanting to do. i dont buy it at all. this dude does do hard drugs or she wouldnt be so drawn to him i think. seems like he is a source for what important to her right now. w0rd.

oh..and the thing about him not drugging..she is trying to make this guy look good. you can take a ball of shizzie and clean it up, polish it, paint it..but in the end..its a ball of shizzie. shes justifying herself in what it is that she is wanting to do. i dont buy it at all. this dude does do hard drugs or she wouldnt be so drawn to him i think. seems like he is a source for what important to her right now. w0rd.

buy her a needle and spoon and walk away. seems to me that she will drag you down as well with all of her problem.


what you have mentioned already leads me to think that she cares only about herself and no one else. addiction in a nutshell. let it go man, you'll be better off that way in the end.