I could've had some successful relationships in the past, but shyness won the battle.

I could've made an educational effort and already be a graduate with a terrific job.

I could've done so many things differently/more efficiently... it just saddens me to imagine the possibilities so rather than get depressive about things, I'll just look forward to the future and hope that, should I recognize it, I will cease the day...

Ignoring a girl for like a year kus I thought she was outta my league, then finding out that she liked me but just began seeing some guy. Then she splits, I make real broad hints that I still like her. I went out clubbing with her last night & kissed her a few weeks back but now magically it seems that she's not interested. I really like her but don't want to be dragged along on another wild goose chase. I decided after I got back last night to give her the 'I surrender, but with honour' speech.

I wrote this up a while ago when seeing some other ho & have used it ever since because I've always thought it to be a piece of marvellous diplomacy. It says everything but also says it without sounding corny/cheesy.

"Look, I think you are a really lovely girl, you know how I feel about you. You know I want to go out with you. I can't handle being friends with you. I hope you are happy with whoever you end up with, Take care x."

I thought this text might be foolproof kus it says everything about how you feel but also says how you like them without kissing their azz. 'Lovely girl' is more like a description one gives to a pet dog. & then at the end you kinda dump the person with mild rejection & they realise they are losing you without even seeing you & prolly makes them pannic a little. It also says stuff like 'You know' which is kinda psychological, after reading that text they will be thinking about it for a while after.

Anyhow after sending that text this morning I got a reply back about lunch time saying. "If that's the way you want it to be. :( X X X"

Course it's not what I want! wallbash: Guess you could say I regret doing that, now wtf do I do? Delete her numba I guess if she's not interested theres f/a I can do. Dumb bish! She could at least throw me a line or something...

ed: eek: rolleyes: oOo: oOo: oOo: oOo: annoy: cuss: cuss: cuss: mad: mad: annoy: stupid: hake:

dude, girlfriends are no fun, its good for awhile but by then your trapped.

ya but shes really hot! Like reaaaaaally hot... rolleyes:

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Why don't you ask her if she understood your message and simply doesn't want to give it a shot ?

Guess I don't really wana look foolish & everyones terrified of rejection... I'd like to say something else but nothing really comes to mind. The message is pretty easy to understand. I just wonder wtf happened to make her change her opinion. I remember her saying she doesn't want another bf for a while but that was like 3 months ago- meh...

This fuckin' place!!


.....regret not joining the Coast Guard in my early days.
.....regret not telling Daniela that she was the one sooner.
.....regret not banging this other girls mother when i was 18.


other than that, i'm pretty content.

Fluff......you gave her no other alternative. Christ, you had better rethink that "lovely" quote of yours. It has holes in it!!

"If that's the way you want it to be. :( X X X" - She just punted the ball back to you and you lost yardage.......and lots of it. Only way to fix it is to eat a lil' crow. It's not gonna be good for the ego i can tell you that! Either that, or suck it up and move on cowboy.

Good luck to you bro but remember, there are many good ones out there. Heck, even Arkan missed out on Daniela but he recooped and nailed down a good one. Don't fret my friend, it's one of the many lessons of life.

Thanks mate, I just realised how sad it must be for someone to post on the net about girl probs, but my sis is out, my dads still living in the 60s & all my mates are at work, the only other option being the ask the guys over at ol GF1.com. Even though we are all in different countries the greater struggles of man remain the same- trying to get some fine female azz...

Banging a girls mother eh? Sounds interestin, rock: I done the best friend but haven't got as far as relatives yet. Ya the quotes got some holes in it but it's telling her like it is. If she really did give that much of a damn then she wouldn't wana lose me. Mebbe I'm better off without her, meh. Still waiting on another girl whos on holiday atm so its not all bad dance:

i regret having anal sex with trippar and milla

all in one night spank:

Too many to name, but most would probably revolve around girls.

i regret i ever met japanese people

Fluff, you son of bitch you need to get her man! No ifs ands or butts! Get to her and just tell her that you really like her and want to see where your relationship can go! Go get her you British SOB before I cram your crumpets with tea!

[quote="Airborne Butters":cd516]Fluff, you son of bitch you need to get her man! No ifs ands or butts! Get to her and just tell her that you really like her and want to see where your relationship can go! Go get her you British SOB before I cram your crumpets with tea![/quote:cd516]
Listen to this man, you need to do as he says.
She is well fit and when you wake up next to her some morning you will have the largest smile you've ever had because she is sexay. She's obviously taken the wrong end of the stick (not yours..........yet) but just keep messaging her back and forth as you tend to read into text messages too much when theres very few of them, best keep communication going. The best thing is to make her laugh, get her giggling and then shes all yours.
Ask her to go for a drink with you and your mates, get drunk, share a hotdog, enjoy le music, squeeze her behind, le freak c'est chic!

Lifes too short not too...

As for me, my well documented love life on this forum has been quite a journey....went to Texas to meet M, she turned out to be quite an angry woman and although I don't regret going over there I really regret telling her how serious I was about her, I look back at it and read over things I said and wrote and I was too intense.
I got way ahead of myself in that relationship but anyways, its over and I've moved on.
Theres plenty of girls I should've and could've asked out but I'm too picky or shy at times, my motto is quality not quantity but when it comes to love........that quote sucksssss. I should've put more effort into school but everyone says that and I'm glad school is way behind me, as I've always wanted to break the norm, never been interested much in the narrow school subjects that were available to me then. My life so far has lacked direction but thats the way i am, I let things happen and i'm as open-minded as they come which is what counts really.

women are trouble dont waste your time