good God!

makes me glad I have normal parents

anyway, as to your problem, hire me and I'll make her think the mob is after her evil: fire1:

That's Nice
 

Wow, for being such a thorn in your side you are certainly going to be nice and put her in a home? That should cost a penny or six, at least here in the states.

I had a great mom, she died last March at 83 and I miss her. But in your case, IF she did cheat on your dad, being without him now should have bent her stick a little. Maybe that's why she's a unhappy person.

Pay back? She's probably getting it now without your dad's income. I can't say why she cheated so won't mention your dad's part in that.

Pay Back !!! - Hmmmmm - Get up, do what she says, get a mate to take you to drivers ed, and remind her often that regardless of how she makes you feel due to HER LOUSY LIFE, you appreciate her.

That'll drive her nuts

Lee

Yes Butters is the guy I'm talking about.

Re: That's Nice
 

I do something like that. I always tell her that its not my fault her life is fucked up and she made her own decisions to end up like this.

...tell her that her personal freshness leaves something to be desired, that type of thing.

before you worry about other peoples lives, make yours better

ignore her and she'll slowly get the hint if she isnt a complete moron . my mom said some stuff like that about me and we still dont talk and she doesnt see her grandson at all . she always asks me why she cant see him and i tell her becuz you're a total biatch . its the little things that hurt people the most .

Sell her to a SweatShop in Africa

Let It Go
 

Oh well, she's a lost case. Try, like they said, to get your own life in order and pass her off as a bad episode in your life. There will come a day when she will need you and when you help she'll feel bad about how she treated you.

PS: Todays my 15th anniversary. Flowers, dinner, limo service for the girl I love. Hoping your life turns around and you enjoy the time we get for living.

Lee

Re: Let It Go
 

My life has gotten better over the past two years but its still fucked up. Im sure itll get better though. I dont think it can get any worse.

I think the best thing you can do is to be a self sufficient person - show your mother that you are able to to depend on yourself rather then others to get by in life.

Punture the fuel line in her car so that the spray lands on the exhaust. That should start a small engine fire. Using a rubber cement or other from of flamable sticky goo run a fuse of "goo" to a gasoline bomb you have premade and set infront of the drivers side. Rigging the gasoline bomb with shrapnel that resembles engine parts, perhaps even going to a junk yard to get bolts from the same model car, the more in depth the better. After that gas bomb detonates killing the occupants, the car should continue to burn, hopefully disposing of most of the obvious elements.

Or say take the "fuck you" approach. Do everthing yourself, never telling her shit. Going out? Just walk out the fucking door without a word. Never speak to her again, she sends you to a head doctor because you wont talk to her, tell the doc, and quote me "She's a fucking skank bitch who i want nothing to do with, unfortunatly she brought me into this world and the law dictates she fuck up my life for 18 years. Im simply doing damage control." Then proceed to walk out.

If its really that bad, walk out now. get a job, or two via lying if needed. Find some dank hole appartments that cost $400 and sleep on the floor for a while. If your sister is in the same position as you and is old enough, bring her along. Get teh hell away from her, and quick.

As for all this "be nice, she'll realise your a good kid" BULLSHIT, people dont think like that. Be as nice as you want she will always treat you like shit. first chance you get dissapear and never look back.

[quote:3d79d]my mom said some stuff like that about me and we still dont talk and she doesnt see her grandson at all . she always asks me why she cant see him and i tell her becuz you're a total biatch . [/quote:3d79d]
I wouldnt even give her the chance to ask. One day i would just have everything in my life in order enough to walk out the door without a word and never see or talk to her again.

and oh yeah... I did leave my house at 18, i joined the service. Yes i now live on my own, and no i have not talked to my mother since. Im 20 with a roomate and an otherwise normal life.

[quote:cf3ad]Or say take the "fuck you" approach. Do everthing yourself, never telling her shit. Going out? Just walk out the fucking door without a word. Never speak to her again[/quote:cf3ad]
do that and make her want you to speak with her

you're actually asking in the wrong place since some of these people live in disfunctional families and will tel lyou to disrespect other people...that seems to be the motto around here