Eh just do what i did. I disowned my sperm donor, commonly known as a father, and rarly talk to my mother. I have a great relaionship with my Mom, but when i turned 18 i was out the door and on my own, by my choice. Since then i've gone home 3 times. Twice for 2 days, and once for 3. You dont need parents, fuck i practally raised myself because my mom was working her ass off because of my fucktard "dad". Now im 20 working a full time job with benefits, making 1300 a month with a pay raise coming. Since i rule at money managment, IE im cheap, thats more than enough with a room-mate. Im not hurting now in the least.

Listen kiddo, i would have killed to have atleast one family member around growing up. Even if i had to put up with one bad one. You have your dad who maybe needs to help you out in this situation. Talk to him, not you mother, esspecially since she just cusses at you when you try.

In a pinch, since you have a good relationship with your sisters and such, perhaps they can loan you some cash. Which you will buy a loaf of bread with and eat a slice a day, until you get a job which should take no more than a week. Try and find some over night work, it pays well and dosnt hurt school schedules much. Once you have a job, start looking for a room mate or two and see about a place to live. Once you have all that in place, worry about bills until you have some SAVINGS behind you.

I knew a guy who acctually lived in a van down by the river (seriously). I went to school with him, he worked 2 jobs, plus school. His parents kicked him out for some reason i wasnt going to pry into when he was 17. He cant get an apartment at 17 so he bought a POS van and some blankets, one of his jobs was at a farm and he showered after work there. Not saying that should be plan A for you but just be resourceful.

[quote="N O T F || Glory":ddb93][quote="Old Reliable":ddb93]kids these days have no respect for parents hake:[/quote:ddb93]

Obviously they dont 60% so far said hell yes he should cock slap his mother hake:[/quote:ddb93]

god damn i hate that shit. You know what sure kids dont respect parents or adults but half the fucking problem is the lack of respect given to them. I had a practice one week at 9am to go to 10am, but the adults who were supposed to be set up and ready werent even there till 9:15 and half of them didnt show up till half way through. I had to give up my time because they did not show respect in being on time. Yet they wonder why we dont respect them? Its a give and take.

You show respect to someone and they should show respect back..

keep in mind, respect is EARNED not given. And frankly I dont care who in the hell you are, you have to EARN my respect.

Hell i dont respect my mom. That whore disrespected me and my father by leaving without even telling us. Now you tell me am i supposed to be some little turd and respect her if she ever talks to me? Ha yeah right. I would cracker slap her ass so hard it would feel like a bullet through her cheek.


BUTTERS. My advice is to grow a fucking set (no dis to you but in a sense) and tell her what you think of her and if she doesnt like it. Well it's too fuckin bad for her then.

AB, If she sticks to her guns on booting you out, do not do anything to make the situation worse. Best thing to do is to get her alone, confront her about the situation and try to reslove it peacefully. Dont make matters worse by breaking things or arguing. Worse case senario, you break stuff or get into a physical confrontation with any sibling in your household can earn you a trip into the lockup. Trust me on that. I have been a officer for a little over 3 yrs and we deal with a lot of domestic disputes. Most, sad to say, end in a multiple arrests with a possibility to be a part of their permanent record. If I remember correctly, you said you are gonna be 18 soon. That can make it harder for you to obtain a career even though domestic violence is technically a misdermeanor. Good Luck, and keep us informed.

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I actually just talked to my mom and shit. I've never made my mom cry but she did! She said I've all sudden made my self very distint from the family, how I never say hi to anyone or shit. She won't kick me though but she's just pissed at always making excuses on why I can't be more sociable. I told her I don't like alot of people or anything, thats why I hate school.

Whatever it's all cool.. hopfully she'll gimme my presents or somtin.

I hope she yanks the fucking silver spoon outta your mouth and sends you to a military academy.

lol "i dont like a lot of ppl", i dont like intraverted people cuz that means that early on they were prolly assholes to everyone. Then the nice ppl started being assholes to that person and the "alpha-asshole" got sad and became intraverted... just a little pyschology type talk there i donno if it makes sense to anyone but makes sense to me oOo:

dude, your best option right now is to get a job, start being successful, that is the thing that makes parents the happiest

Dude, you can spend your whole life trying to win you parents acceptance, might as well get some cash money and get laid (the latter wouldn't work too well with you). As to thisday my mother hates my guts and could care less about what I do (and vice versa). Luckily, I patched things up withm y dad before he died.

what happend to him? ( i dont want to sound like an asshole for asking, its just that im curious)

[quote=Gerard]Shit on her bed...[/quote:c45c3]

he's a person, not an orangutang named Clyde

He's probably cruising the Blvd. looking for cheap (or willing) pussy.

wow, Innoxx is back to being an asshole:) What silver spoon?

Anywho, she was just pissed at how much I've grown apart from her and the family. She took me going to my room for a min as a sign of me hating my family. I don't hate them, I just don't find them intresting. I grow bored! I don't wknow what I'm supposed to talk to them about....

[quote="Airborne Butters":a9782]wow, Innoxx is back to being an asshole:) What silver spoon?

Anywho, she was just pissed at how much I've grown apart from her and the family. She took me going to my room for a min as a sign of me hating my family. I don't hate them, I just don't find them intresting. I grow bored! I don't wknow what I'm supposed to talk to them about....[/quote:a9782]
Talk to them about booking time with a dietitian.

get off the computer, watch less tv, take your mom out to get coffee