hi.
 

i seriously doubt there are too many of you who can relate or offer any comments worth my attention, but ill give it a shot anyway.

theres a person i use to fuck with post-high school. very cute, smart, makes me laugh/smile, can talk to very easily, have super fun being around, really enjoy being around, want their company, very witty and quick to make the joke(which most times has me lol'ing), dry sarcasm like my own,etc. just seeing her makes me smile.

now that i have written that out its almost too good to be true?

the thing is theres no sexual attraction there, none what so ever. i dont know what to make of this, seriously. shouldnt there be? what does this say about me? i know its not becasue she isnt appealling, since ive already said above that she is.

i saw her today and it was the same as it was 10 years ago. i loved the company, we had a shit load of laughs together (which in itself is rare, since people typically dont laugh at what i find funny. that should already be clear already about me i think), all the above mentioned things about her were still true.

I check out her tits and ass while im around her, but the desire just isnt there.

what the hell?

This might be your reason

I have the same problem actually, i've been seeing this one chick, really funny personality, fun to be around, but i just cannot bring myself to be physically attracted to her... she's not ugly by any means, nice face, got a little extra pudge but nothing unhealthy. Maybe just jerk to a bunch of fat chick scat porn and then you'll find her sexy in comparison? That's what i'm gonna try.

I ROFL'd. Just go to one of those bum sex websites and watch people with leprosy fuck each other. She'll be so desirable at the end of an hour-long hobo sex session that your cock will pulsate at the very thought of her.

pics?

maybe u just want her as a friend ...or you feel like if you try to go out you might end up screwing the relationship you had with her as a friend. I had something similar.. she was cute and stuff but i just didnt feel that big of an attraction. I did go out with her a couple of times but still didnt work.

Craig McDermott: The only girls with good personalities who are smart or maybe funny or halfway intelligent or talented, though god knows what the fuck that means, are ugly chicks.
David Van Patten: Absolutely.
Craig McDermott: And this is because they have to make up for how fucking unnattractive they are.

all joking aside...i feel that way about a lot of girls i am friends with...i think of it as more of a genuine friendship than anything else....eventually though i find them sexually appealing sometimes...

maybe you're a faggot calmdown: biggrin:

Maybe she displays too many charatceristsics that on a purely animal level dont make her a good breeder/mother figure.


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i think we're a bit more evolved that we can look past EAT SLEEP REPRODUCE type behaviour.

judas i don't know what to say. maybe in time you'll start to see her as being more attractive, it's happened to me before; it just takes time. it is a weird situation, and hard because i've been there (different as stated above). you just have to ask yourself what don't you find attractive about her. is it because she isn't what most people would think is attractive? etc. give it time, maybe she'll grow on you and then she'll be the right one. p.s. this message has astounded me beacuse i am drunk as fuck and still able to type properly.

[quote="Da_Bian":de480]maybe you're a faggot calmdown: biggrin:[/quote:de480]oooooohhhhhhhhhhh

It IS possible to have a friend that's a girl that you aren't sexually attracted to (I know, hard to believe).

Re: hi.
 

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Yes.

Regardless of of her obvious attractions, a Ladies quim stink can on occasion be simply cancelled out
by a particular chaps nut-aroma...resulting in sexless confusion, a natural form of cock-blocking, if you will.

so obvious I'm suprised you asked

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