Dating coworkers or management
 

Anyone have any personal experiences about this that could help me make up my mind. Some tell me its a bad idea, some say I shouldnt be so picky because im an ugly fuck myself. Whaddya think?

There is this hot manager that always winks at me when she walks by my cube and we have lunch every now and then. She doesnt wear a wedding band or anything like that but shes like 10 years older than me at least. shes hot, nice and has a nice voice and an ass like a nectarine. its hard for me to get my work done cause i like her alot. Shoud i go for it or not?

*zips pants* Got any pics of her? * residue drips onto the mouse as i scroll down to the "GO" tab

haha you sick fuck. i wish i had pics of her. im at work right now and staring at her butt while shes faxing paperwork. mama mia!!! biggrin:

Why not? GO FOR IT!!! If you're at work right now....ask her out!

Im gonna ask her out today before i go home. I cant believe im going to do this. wish me luck doods, im going in...... cool:

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I can only think of two things.
1 Danger Will Robinson Danger!
2 Do you have another job lined up?

[quote:60a60]and an ass like a nectarine[/quote:60a60]

lol

well. depends how old you are.. if you're like 16 and shes 26.. well..I think you should look elsewhere. but if you're old enough.. Id hit it.

Sure.

oh hell yeah dude, i used to work at wal-mart, i had a few women lined up in there...go for it man, its great...cos when you go on breaks you can take them out back and "have lunch" wink:

he is going for it. He's in the process of being rejected as we speak.

HOLY CRAP, TURN IT ON THE FOX REPORT WITH SHEPARD SMITH. You guys see this??? Some guy is hanging from a window washer stand outisde of his office in Anaheim, Ca. They say he's a plumber/ accountant who is known for going to excessive links (?) to try and get a date... stupid:

You better make sure she actually likes you before you ask her. She might just be 'friendly' winking at you.

I've made the same mistake before.

dude, i was in the process of asking her out to something after work when some big, hariy ass linebacker female came over and started bugging my girl about a damned Fry's PO. im going to walk her to her car today and ask her then, in about 2 hours. Before this wildebeast came in and f***ed it all up, she had a big pleasant smile on her face and she seemed to know where i was going with the conversation. it looks pretty good to me. ill let you guys know tonight what happened. rock:

BTW the 'guy' hanging out the window wasnt me, its that chick who interrupted my move. she just looks like a dude. beer:

hahaha wildebeast. GL man, and hit it for all of us biggrin: - heh

Set up a webcam in your room and feed me the link, make sure shes naked first so when I see a hairy ass comes in, Ill know its yours.

Ive made the mistake, girls like to be friendly just long enough for you to tell them you like them then they dont like you anymore. They just want a confidance booster.

Oh man what a night. I asked her out after work, not really a date, but just to hang out. It was the first time we hung out after work and so we went out to eat and went to barnes&noble and just talked for like 4 hours and read books. While we were looking around, i kept brushing by her on purpuse when i would walk around her and my hand touched her hand a couple of times, but she didnt say anything about it. Then we went to see the matrix movie at around 11 at night and we went out for some coffee afterwards. we basically hang out all night long talking about relationships and stuff like that. she hasnt had a real relationship in quite some time and she has gone out with some total A holes in the past. after that we started driving around yorba linda and fullerton and the hills over there and she finally put her hand on mine. when i took her home to her house she invites me in. she lives in a townhome by herself, so it was cool that no hairy wildebeasts would attack us there. we started slow dancing and weird stuff like that, cause i dont dance, so i just made circles around the carpet basically. after a couple of minutes of awkwarness, we started watching some gay ass foreign film that didnt have any sex at all. it was ok with me, bucause i was just thinking about this woman the whole time. she makes a 'move' by turning her back towards me and basically sits/lays down with her back on my chest and puts my arms around her, so i am craddling her while im sitting on the couch. i almost had a freakin heart attack there and i made a stupid noise with my mouth because i was so excited about it. during the most boring part of the movie and after some more awkward silence she looks up at me and i just close my eyes and go for it, aiming a kiss at her mouth and hoping to God i dont get her eye. i pulled back after a second or so to see a reaction from her and she moves in and kisses me too. so we started making out all night long and i spent the night with her on the couch. we didnt do anything other than kiss, but thats okay with me.

So everything went great guys, thanks for the advice and giving in your cents. im going to see her again tonight and i have no expectations. she isnt acting weird at work so far, in fact she walks by my cube more often now. i just hope she likes video games. woot! anyways, no one else noticed that we showed up to work together and left last night together either. thanks again for the advice and ill let you guys know if i am unexpectedly fired from my job.

cool: beer:

/me stands up and applauds.

Way to go, dude!! Sounds like you played all the cards right. You a straight-up PIMP DADDY! biggrin:

Hope it all works out for you in the future, mang.

Congratulations my friend. That's on point.

GG On the funny noise you made.

Glad it worked out for ya....maybe you should consider an aimbot
for kissing if your not very accurate rock:

NICE MAD!!!! WAY TO GO!!!

*stands up and applauses with Zoner

So, when do I get to meet her?

HOLY CRAP NUFF SAID.

WTG Getting a girl at work.

Good Job dude happy:

Im glad i could be of assistence. It was all me biggrin:

GG on making that stupid noise with your mouth!

Is she your boss, or manager or anything like that?

[quote="Short Hand":91cfa]Im glad i could be of assistence. It was all me biggrin:[/quote:91cfa]

LOL, yeah thanks.

She's not my manager, she is the manager of another department. I walk over there on purpose so when she looks at me, i make her laugh. she obviously doesnt want anyone to know about us, so it is a secret right now. i havent asked her age yet, but she looks around mid 30's or so, and shes still hot!! ive already did the high school and college girl thing and they are just too possessive and immature for me. i dont like playing games, and a mature woman like mine is definately a good change for me.

[quote:2c11b]but she looks around mid 30's or so[/quote:2c11b]

how old are you?

im 23.

You dont shit where you eat....i hope things pan out for ya fella... eek:

^
one of the best posts evA! makes me wanna cry cry:
Good job man!!

Now's the time to place your bets on how long it will take for him to get some PUNANI rock:

:::::::::: OK I say 4 days ::::::::::::::

ok....yeah.... eek: gj on gettin a girl...um how long has it been since youve had a relationship? I mean honestly. you were excited when she had you hold her during a movie....I dont know what to say.....um.....god damn....I so wanna make fun of you but I cant. OH I KNOW Glad it worked out. I tried at one girl told her more about me than IVe ever told anyone and....it got no where but a movie and a good night. then a turn down. so glad it worked out...... beer:

[quote="mr.miyagi":32d99][Now's the time to [u]place your bets [/u]on how long it will take for him to get some PUNANI rock:

:::::::::: OK I say [b]4[/b] days ::::::::::::::[/quote:32d99]

lol!! look out for mr romance here!

[quote="Unknown_Sniper"]ok....yeah.... eek: gj on gettin a girl...um how long has it been since youve had a relationship? I mean honestly. you were excited when she had you hold her during a movie

The last relationship I had lasted for a couple of years and she ended it allmost a year ago. she meant alot to me, and so i havent gone out or done anything with another woman since. That, and being an authoritive figure at work made me a little jumpy when she suddenly transformed from a sexy boss to a woman who wanted to cuddle with me. Life is good so far, dudes. im going out with her again in a few minutes.

beer:

I bet he will get some tonight.

gg, keep us posted

Heh, I always said you should have a honey where you make your money. At least at a real job.

But then again, I met my wife while working with her when I was bartending. That job was golden.

im not clear on his professional aspirations or how much this job means to him oOo: but if this is a career he loves and a palce where he wants to remain in the long run, this could make things a bit more.......complicated. if the relationship goes south, and with her in a position of power this could cause him some problems. but then again if he doesnt really care about the job past the paycheck then bang out the whole fucking office.... rock:

I agree. I had my rule, but broke it when it was bartending and waiting jobs. Once I got into a professional career, that type of thing came to an end. There is a lady I work with having some serious issues for a work fling right now. We all gotta make our own decisions, but we should also be aware of the possible consequences.

Hey mad, can we get some pics of her??

I'm working on that one now, but i dont have a digicam yet. ill try to do an artists rendering of her and post it soon. how do i post pics here anyways? ive tried to post pics before and they never loaded right. you basically put them on a website and insert the URL, right?