hi.
 

i seriously doubt there are too many of you who can relate or offer any comments worth my attention, but ill give it a shot anyway.

theres a person i use to fuck with post-high school. very cute, smart, makes me laugh/smile, can talk to very easily, have super fun being around, really enjoy being around, want their company, very witty and quick to make the joke(which most times has me lol'ing), dry sarcasm like my own,etc. just seeing her makes me smile.

now that i have written that out its almost too good to be true?

the thing is theres no sexual attraction there, none what so ever. i dont know what to make of this, seriously. shouldnt there be? what does this say about me? i know its not becasue she isnt appealling, since ive already said above that she is.

i saw her today and it was the same as it was 10 years ago. i loved the company, we had a shit load of laughs together (which in itself is rare, since people typically dont laugh at what i find funny. that should already be clear already about me i think), all the above mentioned things about her were still true.

I check out her tits and ass while im around her, but the desire just isnt there.

what the hell?

This might be your reason

I have the same problem actually, i've been seeing this one chick, really funny personality, fun to be around, but i just cannot bring myself to be physically attracted to her... she's not ugly by any means, nice face, got a little extra pudge but nothing unhealthy. Maybe just jerk to a bunch of fat chick scat porn and then you'll find her sexy in comparison? That's what i'm gonna try.

I ROFL'd. Just go to one of those bum sex websites and watch people with leprosy fuck each other. She'll be so desirable at the end of an hour-long hobo sex session that your cock will pulsate at the very thought of her.

pics?

maybe u just want her as a friend ...or you feel like if you try to go out you might end up screwing the relationship you had with her as a friend. I had something similar.. she was cute and stuff but i just didnt feel that big of an attraction. I did go out with her a couple of times but still didnt work.

Craig McDermott: The only girls with good personalities who are smart or maybe funny or halfway intelligent or talented, though god knows what the fuck that means, are ugly chicks.
David Van Patten: Absolutely.
Craig McDermott: And this is because they have to make up for how fucking unnattractive they are.

all joking aside...i feel that way about a lot of girls i am friends with...i think of it as more of a genuine friendship than anything else....eventually though i find them sexually appealing sometimes...

maybe you're a faggot calmdown: biggrin:

Maybe she displays too many charatceristsics that on a purely animal level dont make her a good breeder/mother figure.


oOo:

i think we're a bit more evolved that we can look past EAT SLEEP REPRODUCE type behaviour.

judas i don't know what to say. maybe in time you'll start to see her as being more attractive, it's happened to me before; it just takes time. it is a weird situation, and hard because i've been there (different as stated above). you just have to ask yourself what don't you find attractive about her. is it because she isn't what most people would think is attractive? etc. give it time, maybe she'll grow on you and then she'll be the right one. p.s. this message has astounded me beacuse i am drunk as fuck and still able to type properly.

[quote="Da_Bian":de480]maybe you're a faggot calmdown: biggrin:[/quote:de480]oooooohhhhhhhhhhh

It IS possible to have a friend that's a girl that you aren't sexually attracted to (I know, hard to believe).

Re: hi.
 

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Yes.

Regardless of of her obvious attractions, a Ladies quim stink can on occasion be simply cancelled out
by a particular chaps nut-aroma...resulting in sexless confusion, a natural form of cock-blocking, if you will.

so obvious I'm suprised you asked

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From the sound of it, you're looking for a reason to be attracted to her. And you've found them. The problem is, it's just not happening. Yes, I am the master of the obvious lol Umm, so if there's no attraction there, on a sexual basis, then you're both simply better off as very good friends. Does she feel the same way about you? I mean, does she think you're hot?

Not really. Sexual desire comes from instinct. Its part of our concious minds, but the 'how and whys' are buried beneath layers of animal need

oh really? no shit eh? what are these in..stinc..ts you speak of? actually it's more part of our subconscious minds, but i was saying i think we're a bit more evolved than the rest of the animal kingdom in that we can supress or overcome the basic instincts. we're not primal apes running around ready to hump whatever would seem to be the best mother.

Its cool, i'm attracted to Dan too.

Embrace your gayness.

lol.

GET DRUNK

beer:

I saw thise thing on iTV the other week. Said that if she played with her hair, she's probably keen.

She's playing with her hair quite regularly? Then I reckon you could well be in.

I don't know...it seems the only girls im friends with...id also bang...well besides peoples ex-grilfriends cuz that's untouchable.

Though i can't see myself in a relationsjhip with some of them...but id still bang them im sure.

Whi?

out of respect for your friends I guess...plus i never really wanted to bang their exgirlfriends yet anyways...they usually annoy me.

whats the amount of time before the "bros before hoes" thing expires?

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whats the amount of time before the "bros before hoes" thing expires?[/quote:a8dad]
2 months. Or until he gets another girlfriend.

[quote=CoMaToSe]2 months. Or until he gets another girlfriend.[/quote:d1524]

Have you had a gf?

[quote=CoMaToSe]2 months. Or until he gets another girlfriend.[/quote:23700]

wtf, 2 months? i would almost say never, unless the your friend is content with banging/seeing someone else or that you know he's completely over it. chivalry is dead now a days.. and i think you ate it.

[quote=anti][quote=CoMaToSe]2 months. Or until he gets another girlfriend.[/quote:84604]

wtf, 2 months? i would almost say never, unless the your friend is content with banging/seeing someone else or that you know he's completely over it. chivalry is dead now a days.. and i think you ate it.[/quote:84604]

I think the general rule is just don't do it (if it were a serious relationship)....My reasoning being, how the fuck could you get past your mates dick shafting this girl so much he's probably left loads of semen up in her? Its gross to think of my friends naked, let alone fucking the same girl you are, and potentially doing a better job of it.

Yeah the aforementioned 2 month rule is nonexistant to those of us who have a shot with women. Your wang does not belong where your budy has already tread. There are extremely rare circumstances where you talk with your budy and he gives some sort of consent; but this is far from the norm.

To quote and old rap tune " it ain't no fun unless the homies can get some" oOo:

I have a chick like that. It's because all women are stupid and inferior and when you get one that is actually intellectually sane then you don't see her as a chick you see her as a mix between chick and dude.

lol

women are inferior to u because they don't like droopy mofos

[quote=yves][quote=CoMaToSe]2 months. Or until he gets another girlfriend.[/quote:edad1]

Have you had a gf?[/quote:edad1]
No

Yet you've managed to been laid over 4 times, gotten head, and had sex with your sister

[quote="Doctor Duffy":d770d]I had sex with your sister[/quote:d770d]IOOHEHHHWHWHWHWH WAT YE GON DO

[quote="Doctor Duffy":248e6]Yet you've managed to been laid over 4 times, gotten head, and had sex with your sister[/quote:248e6]
Never gotten laid. Had 3 sexual encounters in my entire life. No coitus. What is it with kids and thinking sex is only peepee go in box?