well i have a new problem
 

i have a serer set up behind a router and i followed rudedog's port listing for the port forwarding, but now that i have that set up, none of the other mashines on the network can connect to other mohsp server out there, they all get connection timed out, but they were able to connect to the server before i set up the port forwarding

ANY IDEA'S ON WHAT HAPPENED

Dunno, but it's possible that now that the server is up the other machines cannot connect using the same IP address.