so my trailer trash looking brother just came for a visit
 

and he wanted to borrow some money from me


seriously, he looks like pure trailer trash, he's decked out in a wife beater that has food stains on it, gained ALOT of weight since he moved out, covered in body hair, hasnt shaved, and looks like he hasnt brushed his teeth is forever. He also has some trailer trash girlfriend too, has raggedy red hair, is ALWAYS dressed down, (pajama bottoms and whatnot) and she apparently just got braces cuz I never noticed them before.

It's quite sad to see that he turned out this way, He really should not have moved out. He now lives with his girlfriend and Her brother and Sister renting out an apartment. He wanted to be more independent I guess.

So yea, He just came by to drop off my other brother, because he was over at his drinking/smoking weed rolleyes: So he just started chatting with me as I was waiting for my hard boiled eggs to finish and then asks "You think I can borrow like $20 for smokes until pay day? Come on man, you know me, im good for it, Ill pay u back friday"

Well, it's not like I have my own fucking bills to pay or Car payments to pay off and shit, I might aswell just throw my fucking money away and support his habbits. I HATE lending people money, even if it is my family (with the exception of my dad) because I never ask ANYBODY for money EVER.

So whatever, I was hesitant and he saw that, but I say ya sure. so we headed over across the street to the atm. I know this is a bad thing to say but it was EMBARRESSING to be seen with him, he looked disgusting, he was high and probably drunk too. I got his cash as he waited outside.

We then walked back to the house and he says to me "you smoke weed?" I said "no" He was like "that's good man, thats good, that's all I really do now, Ive stopped smoking crack, snortin rails of coke, all I do is just smoke weed and Drink and play Quake 3"

Wow, what a fucking role model he is, and HE'S older than ME.

Out of the three of us (got two brothers) Im the one that has actually done something with their life. Ive held down a job for more than a year. Got my Lisence (they're 25/26 and still dont have their lisence) Im also Financing a car, I pay my own bills and soon will put myself through some more schooling, To put it Bluntly I AM THE GOOD SON.

Cant believe he turned out like this, pure fucking trailer trash.


thanks for reading. beer:

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You know he is going to use that $20 for weed or booze. Easier said than done, but you really shouldn't have given him any money in my opinion.

you're right, but I mean really, If I said no and just walked way, he would have thrown a hissy fit and starting smashing things. He's like that. So just to get him off my dick, I did it.

thats cool you have an atm across the street.

but umm, yeah sounds like he's definetly at a bad point in his life, no doubt. But you make it sound as if his life is over. He more than likely just needs someone positive (maybe you or someone who can he more relate to in terms of a role model type of person) in his life that isn't around at the moment. I know it's hard to look at him and see anything but his trailer trashedness*, but try and help dude out a little bit. And ffs, educate your other brother about hanging out with them at their house. If they must hang, tell them to hang out at your place.

btw, that bruce shit is getting old

n00b... complaining about something only makes it worse

[quote="[DAS REICH] Blitz":9723a]n00b... complaining about something only makes it worse[/quote:9723a]shut your ass up before i slice your throat

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loney:

Should have said you didnt have any cash, then walked away. Then left the house until you were certain he was gone. Avoid shitty people, they will only mooch, and abuse your good nature. I never lend anything out, especially cash. Guy at work makes twice as much as i do and is always mooching people for cash, including me, everyone hates him.

well as for the money part, I tried to steer away from that, I told him "I have no cash on me man, sorry" but He knew there was a atm across the street, fucking pissed me off when he brought it up.

As for my other brother, he's also a drinker and weed smoker, I know he did crack, but I dont think hes done it in a while.

He just doesnt see how his life has turned out thew ay I see it, He sees himself with a normal life style. and I really dont want to be the one to put a positve spin on his life, cuz he just doesnt have the mental power for it.

well for me personally, i believe that when the time is right, god will help him if he is deserving /end

When he brings up the ATM across the street say:

A: "Yeah i stopped by it earlier and it was broken."
B: "Oh shit forgot about that, i'll head over there when im done with my eggs". Retreat to your room to eat your eggs then jump out the window and go see a movie or some shit.
C: "I know, but fuck im way to damn lazy to walk that far".
D: Kill him.

hmm Option D seems like the more plausable idea there.

just be glad you are how you are now, never had this problem, i too have 2 older brothers, 30 and 28, both married, one has 2 girls, and both have good careers. sorry to hear that bucky cry:

Lending him the money was the biggest mistake ever, only encourages his sorry ass to come back later for more.