Special thanks to kdja from TMT for pointing out how to do this. I copied this from his post at mohadmin.com.
This works for me but not for others.
Dont know why but i got it working after hacking away at ASE all weekend.
3 Days of gamespy was enough.
Simply follow the steps and then ponder why it works for some and not for others.
1 PLace this FILTERS.TXT into your ASE DIR (updated today so its fine)
http://homepage.eircom.net/~abyrne/filters.txt
2 When you next load ASE Spearhead will be a FOLDER on the GAmes LIST click on it hit Custom CFG and point the EXE ONLY to The Spearhead EXE.
3 Refresh the MOHAA GAME on the LIST.(they use the same ports)
4Now the Spearhead FOLDER should now be an ICON (if not i dont know)
the folder changed to an icon after i refreshed the MOHAA folder, and restarted ASE