ah you missed the boat on the aa.com server. ship went down a few months back. If you are into MOHAA then try the aM server at 66.151.108.103. Most of the spamming queens from here whore it up over there. Its actively policed by no shit taking potty mouth aM members...
The SpearHead kids like to play at AAN server. Get server info and map packs at
http://www.allaboutnothing.com They run a custom realims mod and actively police the server.