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SoLiDUS · 08-02-2003, 08:45 PM

Honesty is the best policy in this case, Miyagi. I believe in polygamy so you
may or may not agree with the things I propose; I assume they wouldn't as
well... so I'll look at it from the point of view of monogamists.

From what I could gather, breaking up with Mel seems like it could make
her do silly things, but how silly ? Remember that she has an offspring to
take care of: I truly doubt she could be that selfish. A temporary "break"
could be the solution you seek : taking time apart gives you the chance to
explore alternatives in semi-fairness but if your feelings for Christina grow
you may end up in a bigger predicament than you initially started with. It
would appear that extrication from the aformentioned would be difficult...
but I may be wrong and you might very well make an easy choice after all
is said and done.

In the end, I believe in following the heart: no one can be truly happy until
all loose ends are tied up and the burdenous nature of a situation nullified.

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SoLiDUS is Offline Senior Member Posts: 5,158 Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Gatineau, Qc, Canada	08-02-2003, 08:45 PM Honesty is the best policy in this case, Miyagi. I believe in polygamy so you may or may not agree with the things I propose; I assume they wouldn't as well... so I'll look at it from the point of view of monogamists. From what I could gather, breaking up with Mel seems like it could make her do silly things, but how silly ? Remember that she has an offspring to take care of: I truly doubt she could be that selfish. A temporary "break" could be the solution you seek : taking time apart gives you the chance to explore alternatives in semi-fairness but if your feelings for Christina grow you may end up in a bigger predicament than you initially started with. It would appear that extrication from the aformentioned would be difficult... but I may be wrong and you might very well make an easy choice after all is said and done. In the end, I believe in following the heart: no one can be truly happy until all loose ends are tied up and the burdenous nature of a situation nullified.