[quote="Dr. Deleto":62fff]Tripper maybe if you quit trying to put the blame for every insecurity you have onto everyone else then you would understand what I was saying. The only illogical part of it is how you can't understand it.

Ignorant? No, I think not. If I was ignorant I would explode everytime someone called me a name instead of just sayin "Thats right!". hmmmm, blowing up about it.....sounds familiar in some way.

On the same note, I was NEVER saying that the person doing the name calling wasnt at least partly at fault, but your the one letting them get to you. Why not show your the bigger man and be comfortable with yourself instead of taking offense everytime someone says the word "Wigger". Thats all I said. Read it again. If you are truly comfortable with who you are then you take no offense when someone points it out.[/quote:62fff]

so... Don't stand up for yourself?