Ok, guys update.
I was trying to setup a bot to watch over the irc channel and provide some games( trivial and war ) well , my server that I was running this from, or trying to was klined because of Open proxi. well I dont run a proxy and I know for a fact that all my ports are closed ( wth the execption of 113 and 8080.
They do a check to see if for some reason you have an unsicure proxy which can be an internet menace.
This is why some of you might not be able to join. I am looking in to this and will eather change servers or figure out what to do.
sorry guys
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will update ASAP