[mr.miyagi]

[quote="Chronic Diarrhea":00790]It's always good to play the game with them. I really can't explain it, but for some reason making it look like you're not interested makes them come towards you. I guess it's the basic human instinct of what is ofrbidden is always more desired. Think back to when you were a kid and your parents denied you ice cream. You probably bitched and made a fit, because it was not readily available to you. The same thing applies to attracting women. The key is not to distance yourself too far from a girl, because then you've gone the other direction, but giving them mixed signals and making them think different things seems to be a consistent way to hook up with women.

Women don't want somebody to constantly baby them. Don't be a pussy boy. Don't dress like a metrosexual. Let your beard stubble grow out a little. Arkan knows what he's talking about. For those still in high school, if you still have the notion that trying to be sweet and adorable will get their attention then you need to drop that. Act like you are the shit, and that you COULD date her if you wanted, but also make her think that you could also do better, even if you are mad crazy about a girl. This even applies to the very attractive ones. It may be hard to not start having seizures of joy the second a ridiculously hot girl starts talking to you, but if you keep your head level, and approach it as if she were just one out of the many, then chances are she will be much more likely to want to if you were to rather act like a pussy boy and be at her beck and call.[/quote:00790]
yeah, the man talks sense. Of course it sounds ultra corny but you just have to get on with things and be yourself, let them come to you but make sure you're available to them, if they want to talk to someone then be on hand to have an honest chat every now and then. Being dependable is a great thing, never try too hard to make them laugh, on the outside look yourself but on the inside YOU'RE THE FONZ.
If you try too hard then it really shows and puts people off. I've found honesty and humour to be the best allies....if they don't dig that then forget em, friendship 1st is the best way as when you're friends then any kind of situation may come along....like 'oh can you pass me the towel mr.miyagi?'
'sure sarah buddy, ok......ooh you don't have any clothes on'
*cue hot wet slippery bathroom snog*