Fluff......you gave her no other alternative. Christ, you had better rethink that "lovely" quote of yours. It has holes in it!!
"If that's the way you want it to be.
X X X" - She just punted the ball back to you and you lost yardage.......and lots of it. Only way to fix it is to eat a lil' crow. It's not gonna be good for the ego i can tell you that! Either that, or suck it up and move on cowboy.
Good luck to you bro but remember, there are many good ones out there. Heck, even Arkan missed out on Daniela but he recooped and nailed down a good one. Don't fret my friend, it's one of the many lessons of life.