
08-26-2002, 06:12 PM
Cheating on someone does not make you a "bad" person, although certain people will consider you as such. If you really get that close to someone then you would consider their feelings more (being unselfish, to clarify the above post). Your actions will cause a reaction from your loved one - if you care, you wouldn't want to see them hurt, which is waht would happen via the meaningless sex.
Women on the whole view sex differently to men as well, so although you consider it meangless sex with some toothless whore (just kidding) - she would have all sorts of turmoil because she most likely sees sex as something sacred shared between two people. The worst being her self eteem as your actions would make her feel worthless.
The problem is that our instincts are in a battle for control with our civility. If your head rules your body (rather than body) then you would quantify the risks of an illicit encounter as opposed to your body just going "Graaah, shag everything that moves, sod the consequences, that's another day".
The worst thing that an animal can have is higher reasoning, it just causes conflict....
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