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Originally Posted by "Bean 2":8c442
Do u have any tips on how to get girls? Just wondering thanks.
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I use to have the hardest time getting girls. I was the nice shy guy, who tried to be the perfect gentleman. Guess what? That doesn't work very well these days. I have found, at least in the places that I hang out, that women like cocky, arrogant, outspoken men. But there is a fine line with that approach. You go overboard, and it'll backfire. I would say that you must show confidence, and a good sense of humor. Crack witty little jokes that'll get them laughing. If you can get them to laugh, you are in.
However, take this advice with a grain of salt. So much depends on the woman and the situation. With all of my long-term girlfriends, I went with the gentleman approach as I was looking for a relationship.
Anyway, I am sure that there are others out there with some good ideas as well.[/quote:8c442]
well said man. I've had this attitude to 'girls' all my life, to be the gentleman, show respect, show your true feelings and all its got me is friends which of course is great but when you get sick and tired of being the one who makes people laugh, the person to depend on, being the nicest guy on the block can be the loneliest one too. ive always made friends quite easily and can get on great with all girls too but because im not a pushy, arrogant meathead i rarely get results. right now i feel a girl who thinks similarly to me, understands my humour and relaxed attitude to life. id never purposefully change my ways for a shag, id rather wait it out for a less butch minded, anti-romantic bitch who doesn't give a shit about love and is numb to what she truly wants that'll make her happy.
Through the media, peoples attitudes towards relationships, pregnancy and personal pride have been kept out of the way by slogans, commercials, celebrity lifestyles and all sorts of other propaganda that easily influences the misinformed average sheep of the street.
as well as losing personal opinion, people are being made lazier and lazier as they find that the media can decide most things for them, therefore categorised lifestyles are simply taken up like hobbies.
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im the kind of guy who'd search far and wide for the REAL girls, not the part time ho on the street......and i may jus have found my dream girl