
12-03-2005, 06:54 PM
good luck finding a person with all of what you find to be the "perfect" woman, theres always going to be trade offs.
i pay CLOSE attetion to people, particularly woman, usually watching and listening over constantly running my mouth. it fuking amazes me how a persons personality changes from what they want you to see to what comes out when they are truly being themselves. the "we all wear masks" idea couldnt be more true.
anyway.
1. itd be nice for her to be interested in the same shit as i am, the arts, film, culture ( ie she knows a good cup of coffee, or dinner when she has one and isnt afraid to try new shit ), technology. I could bend on this tho, i like learning/hearing about new shit so if she brings something new to the table im fine with that.
2. looks ... mightve been super important 10 years ago but now i see that the ones who look the best are usually the most trouble. i could bend a bit if personality and interests are interesting. plus, ive learned that the smaller things sometimes make a person more attractive, if you pay attention. the way they walk, sit, write, eat, etc. its all about the way you present yourself for me.
3. she must share my admiration, respect and love for animals. must. cant bend on this one.
4. FAMILY AND FRIENDS. they HAVE TO BE tolerable or else get away.
5. Independent.
6. also dont want someone too slutty, but as slutty as i am. slutty appearance = no.
7. no body art, fuked up peircings or other gay body mutilations.
8. kind and respectful of other people.
9. not easily influenced by cultural trends. must be an individual. unique.
10. cant be too serious. she HAS to be able to act like an idiot/child no matter what age. sense of humor ... i guess, but a bit more than that.
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