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Poseidon · **My life dillema -** 01-27-2006, 06:06 AM

Alight sorry if this is abit long but I need to explain the situation

2 months ago, my mum was put into a pysiciatric ward, im not going into details as to why. A couple of days before she broke up with my Dad, ended the marrage pretty much! My dad has moved out and is now living with his parents.

My mum was put on section 3 meaning she wasnt allowed to leave the hospital. In the meantime, myself and my 2 sisters have been living on our own in the rented house. Me and one of my other sisters have been splitting the cost of the house - rent, food, some of the bills etc between us.

This last week my mum has been released from the hospital, and is now living with us again. This is where the fun starts. She is getting a little money in benefts as she is not working, this is supposed to be paying for the bills, but she is blowing all this money on tatoos, nose/ eye brow piercings, and just other random shit. Meaning we are having no more money coming in to pay for bills.

My mums whole character has completely changed since she has returned. She now has a 'I dont give a fuck attitude' everything about her personality has completely changed. She started smoking a week before she went mental (after 10 years of being smoke free) and she is now smoking in the house - which I realllly hate, and have approached her multiple times nicely and harshly. Yet she still doesnt give a fuck. She is bilding a VERY fine line between us and I feel I am going to flip sometime soon! The whole house is a fucking shithole. nothing is washed up, cleaned or anything, I have no room to move around my own damn kitchen, as dishes are left lyring around, there are usualyl no tea spoons or knives to use, as their all in the sink.

I am already pretty stretched in my own finances as I have my own loan to pay off and have a car to pay for, as well as the house and living expenses. I also need to think about my social life and my girlfriend. I have a shit job, and have been looking for something better for months, without joy.

Basically I am thinking of getting a flat with my sister, it'll be slightly harder financially but I'll be having a better home life. Wed' have to get a small loan to cover some furnashing, although we have enough stuff between us to furnish most of the house.

If we were to move out, the goverment would pay for everything for my mum and my remaining sister, although they will have to move into a small house or flat. there would be more than enough money to live on through the benefits they will receive..

I'm just fucking sick of this house and this family. But i'll need a better paid job before a we move out.

Any advise?

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Poseidon is Offline 2nd Lieutenant Posts: 3,358 Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Good ol' England!	My life dillema - 01-27-2006, 06:06 AM Alight sorry if this is abit long but I need to explain the situation 2 months ago, my mum was put into a pysiciatric ward, im not going into details as to why. A couple of days before she broke up with my Dad, ended the marrage pretty much! My dad has moved out and is now living with his parents. My mum was put on section 3 meaning she wasnt allowed to leave the hospital. In the meantime, myself and my 2 sisters have been living on our own in the rented house. Me and one of my other sisters have been splitting the cost of the house - rent, food, some of the bills etc between us. This last week my mum has been released from the hospital, and is now living with us again. This is where the fun starts. She is getting a little money in benefts as she is not working, this is supposed to be paying for the bills, but she is blowing all this money on tatoos, nose/ eye brow piercings, and just other random shit. Meaning we are having no more money coming in to pay for bills. My mums whole character has completely changed since she has returned. She now has a 'I dont give a fuck attitude' everything about her personality has completely changed. She started smoking a week before she went mental (after 10 years of being smoke free) and she is now smoking in the house - which I realllly hate, and have approached her multiple times nicely and harshly. Yet she still doesnt give a fuck. She is bilding a VERY fine line between us and I feel I am going to flip sometime soon! The whole house is a fucking shithole. nothing is washed up, cleaned or anything, I have no room to move around my own damn kitchen, as dishes are left lyring around, there are usualyl no tea spoons or knives to use, as their all in the sink. I am already pretty stretched in my own finances as I have my own loan to pay off and have a car to pay for, as well as the house and living expenses. I also need to think about my social life and my girlfriend. I have a shit job, and have been looking for something better for months, without joy. Basically I am thinking of getting a flat with my sister, it'll be slightly harder financially but I'll be having a better home life. Wed' have to get a small loan to cover some furnashing, although we have enough stuff between us to furnish most of the house. If we were to move out, the goverment would pay for everything for my mum and my remaining sister, although they will have to move into a small house or flat. there would be more than enough money to live on through the benefits they will receive.. I'm just fucking sick of this house and this family. But i'll need a better paid job before a we move out. Any advise?