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Originally Posted by anti
when you guys talk about all these kids being cheeky fucks, i really don't see it, at all. even still, if they are in need of parenting, it's parenting they need; not a fucking slap. that should be the very last resort to discipline a child. kids are assholes because their parents didn't raise them right to begin wtih, and now you want them to get hit for it? that's a great way for it to go down, have their daddy that never cared about them start raising his hand in anger.
parenting with physical violence is the worst form of parenting, it's been documented and studied. too many negative consequences come from it, and it leaves alot of negative impacts on the kid. i couldn't imagine being physically scared of my father, it was disappointing him that deterred me from doing anything.
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Its not really being scared of my dad, I loved my dad and he loved me. It wasnt like he batted me around just for the hell of it. When I deserved it...i got it. So when I was out about to do something I know I shouldnt it always occured to me first, is this really worth getting a kick in the ass over and mostly the answer came back no.
As to those kids in the video, its their mouths that got them in trouble. Had they listened and been respectful of the officer none of that would have happened. They pushed and he pushed back harder. I would hate to have had the officer cuff me when I was that age and then he called my dad and explained how I had behaved and talked to him. Id been beggin the officer to leave me in the jail!!! Home is the last place I would have wanted to go.
There's a simple lesson that was taught to every kid a long time ago called respect for your elders. When speaking to a person much older then yourself its suposed to be yes sir or no sir, The way those kids were talking its a wonder they all didnt end up with a fat lip. And I think they should have!!!