Help me. Serious problem. Don't know what to do... -
04-14-2003, 10:09 PM
Okay, I've got a VERY serious problem here.
It has to do with my ex, who I'm still friends with. She's a great girl, and I really love her, but lately, she's been heading down the wrong path. She quit smoking years ago, and stopped doing drugs last year. But, now, she's met a guy, a 23 year old by the name of dean. He's offered to let her be his room mate, and she's taking him up on the offer. She says he really cares about her, and that he's a great guy, but I KNOW he isn't. I've met him, for about a minute, and to tell you the truth, I don't really know him very well at all, but my gut is telling me he isn't a good guy, and my gut feels have NEVER been wrong before. She stayed with him for about a week to see what living with him was like. When she came home, she was smoking again, and even worse, back on drugs, hard drugs. She's admitted only to doing Lithium, but I strongly suspect she's also on heroin, which she has done in the past. She has OD'ed a few times in the past, a couple of them were very serious and involved a lengthy stay in the hospital. She's only 16, and I know if she keeps this up, it's not gonna have a good ending. Even more, I know this dean is going to hurt her, and one of her best friends agrees with me on this. I've tried talking to her about it, but she just gets angry and tells me to shutup, and go away. I've offered to help her in every way I can come up with, but she keeps rejecting my offers. I can't just sit by and watch her slowly destroy herself, but I can't think of anything to do. So, please, if any of you guys have any ideas, please let me know. I love her and can't stand this, but I just don't know what to do, I need help...
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