[Poseidon]

Ok, Sorry for the really long post but I need to get it off my chest. Some of you remember me going on a date with my ex/gf like 2 months ago. Heres the story so far.

Basically, we split last week for a number of different reasons, I currently have no job and neither does she, so basically going anywhere is out of the question, Im basically only just managing to keep my car on the road, whilst im looking for a new job. Our relationship consisted of going to the pub pretty much every day, she wouldnt really speak all much as she has her many 'girly' chats. anyway once in a blue moon she'd come back to mine etc. Prolly the best part of our relationship, we'd get along fine, chatting, sex etc.

So we had a chat and decided to split - I was supporting the split as much as she was. However over the last week I've seriously been regretting the decision, i've found myself to be thinking of her pretty much all the time, basically realising that im actually falling in love with her.

I havent yet had the opportunity to tell her this. However this is the current situation:

She has been getting really close with this other guy she met a couple days ago, getting really flirty infront of me, etc. and found out tonight shes now going out with this guy. However a good friend of mine that knows this guy said he's basically a player, he's in it for the fuck. Now putting me in an awkward situation, my feelings for her and knowing this guy is a player.

So I took her home, she knew I was really upset and so we had a chat, I let it all go - telling her i'm falling in love with her etc, and the situation with this other guy (being a player) I have supplyed the name of my mate for reference should she want it. She started going on about how she didnt know my real feelings towards her etc,

Everyone that has seen us together has always said we are the perfect couple, even before we were going out. So with all this 'laid on the table' What the fuck do I do now? It'll take me a long time to get over her, Should I wait for her to approach me, or keep trying once/if her current relationship ends?

I'm also just looking out for her - not wanting her to get hurt by this others.