[ninty]

All you can do is talk to her. Tell her you really need to talk to her and she shold lisrten etc and tell her your feelings...exactly what you said here. If she won't listen, write a letter. you don't have to mail it or anything but sometimes writing a letter is a lot easier and better than talking in person. you can write down all of your feelings and give it to her. She can't tell you to shut up and she'll read it for sure. A letter is a good way of conveying your feelings without havng the complications that you talk about.

The only other things I can think of is talking to her parents. Where are her parents? Moving in with a 23 year old at 16? WTF is up with this guy anyway? he must be a perv. I'm 19 and I wouldn't really thnk of doing "anything" with a 16 year old. My brother is 15 and I just think of how hes closer to her age than me...that just freaks me out. and this dude is 4 years older than me. The only other thing than talking to her parents is maybe a councellor or support group. Maybe get a bunch of your friends together and confront her like they did on seinfeld for that guy who was on drugs. They called it an Interention.

Thats all I can think of. Good luck dude.