[wintersforge]

kiss your social life, sexlife, gaming life, and any other life you have goodbye. say good bye to sleep as well. you will run on adrenaline the first few weeks then you and the mommy will start to go at each others throat eek: ..advice?

...eat in shifts. assuming you work 40+ hours a week..take the kid as much as you can when you get home and always take the kid on the weekends. if they cry go through a checklist:

-check diaper
-hungry?
-might be hot or cold
-over stimulated in which case you will just have to deal with it
-over tired(see above)

swaddling the kid for the first 3-4 weeks is golden. might wanna pick up "sounds of the womb" and play it when they get cranky. get a swing.

after about 4 weeks have someone you trust babysit and go bang your girl out for 3 hours straight...gl and hf...gg stupid: