[ninty]

yeha, i mean more like what buck is saying. i mean, i know im not going to be paying for her kid and all, it just makes a relationship harder. im not really looking for a relationship either. i was just a little concerned if i'm making the effort, she might take that the wrong way and think i want to get into a relationship, and normally thats ok, but again, the kid compicates things.

my friends are saying i should employ the "catch and release" program in this situation. I probably won't take her on the pub crawl, but i'll call her and we'll go stampede it up or something this week. i'll see how she reacts and if shes clinging on, i'll get rid of her, but if she gets the idea, then it might be a good setup. i guess i'll play it by ear.

this week is going to be tough for me. up every day at 6am and i'll be out most nights till probably around 2 because of the stampede. one huge ass city wide drunk fest.

thanks for the advice and opinions guys. its cool i actually got some thoughtful responses. rock: