you make a good point about the cheaters moving on. i run a small server with 15 players. ive got 10 or 12 regulars who show every night and play. we have been together for a year or so. i modded the moh maps and some of the spearhead maps just to keep the game fresh. fire and smoke,machine guns, the aa gun in a few other maps just to increase the action a little. we all still love the game and have a great time playin and bullshittin. my advice would be.find a server that you enjoy and stay there. youll know what to expect and how its run. all my players are adults so theres not the f word flyin around and the players have respect for one another. of course when the asshole shows up( and you know he will) he dont last long. hes kicked and banned from the server.players who enjoy the game are welcome on my server.a few players have my phone number. if a player starts problems and im not sittin there someone will call and let me know about the problem and hes gone. theres nothing wrong with the game its self. its all in how you go about it.