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Originally Posted by Arkan
Wow, i must be the luckiest guy on this forum. I've known my girl since '87 and she is the one. She's definately a keeper and most people i know say how lucky i am to have a girl like that. While she's not perfect, she earns her keep around here.
We treat each other like humans and give each other space when we need it. She doesn't break my balls when i'm playing games too long or when i get together with my buddies on occasion. I do whats expected of me and i know when to say no to certain things. With time, we both learned how far we can go before the other person gets annoyed. She understands her place in the relationship as well as i understand mine.
We don't pretend to be something we're not.....like her having the balls in the relationship or me being a regular cassanova buying her flowers everyday.
You guys will eventially find women who are who they are and will accept you for you. The one's you're running into now just arent ready to settle down to a semi serious relationship. Don't rush anything....it'll all work out by itself.
Shit, if i can do it, so can you!
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I feel ya arkan, its like that with me n mel, we're not assholes, we're not the kind of people who'd just get into an argument and walk out on each other.. we only want each other for life, she only wants me and i only want her, we know when we'd like to really settle all things down, we're best friends and totally in love. We talk all day everyday, we laugh all the time, we work out each others problems and potential ones. Unfortunately she's been getting very upset on the phone in the past two days because i can't be there with her for a couple of months, i always pull her round tho and keep a smile on her face, she's the greatest girl i've ever known.
its like we're the same, just different sexes, now thats a scary thought eh?
You'll all find the right one ..when you least expect it. i've found mine and i'm never leaving her side. Patience my sons!
[NP]Love Can Damage Your Health - Telepopmusik (appropriate, hehe)