[quote=Miscguy]
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Originally Posted by "Fluffy_Bunny":1ab5d
"Look, I think you are a really lovely girl, you know how I feel about you. You know I want to go out with you. I can't handle being friends with you. I hope you are happy with whoever you end up with, Take care x."
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Redded for the biggest mistake.
That whole line just cuts them off completly, it sounds as if your walking and not looking back. Sadly you need to make it sound less "im fuckin gone" and a bit more "im fisheing for a positive reply".
Something along the lines of "i cant stand
just being your friend anymore". That doesnt sound like good bye, it comes off as 'Im looking for more".
Also dont be a fucking coward, IM's are not the same as in person speech. You cant tell the tone of someones voice, or "how" they're saying things via IM. Its ripe for missunderstanding. It also leaves you open to have a discussion over whats going on, rather than "ok, bye" then she logs off in a huff from missunderstanding you.[/quote:1ab5d]
Ya true, looks like I gotta edit my lil speech thing. I appreciate all the help etc. The problem is she is a pro-ho. I've tried calling her before to ask her out for a drink but the bish doesn't answer her phone. Looks a bit dumb if you call her 5+ times a week & she doesn't answer eek: I have been out with her before & the day rocked, we went clubbing etc. But whilst we were at the bar some guy kept on ringing her & she didn't bother to answer. She told her friend that the guy probably just wanted sex. I shared a secret glance with my mate upon hearing that biggrin: .
The fastest way to put someone off you is to appear desperate & if she's not playing the game & kicking the ball then I may as well take it & go home. I like her & have told her that pretty much in the text. If she doesn't like me what am I to do? She did say that she liked me & said it to my face back in December 04, she was pretty drunk & even said she wanted to sleep with me lol, prolly pissed off that I ignored her for like 2 years. I was too gob-smacked to make anything of the situation. It's annoying kus she appears to have changed her mind. You can't just make someone like you. That's the problem see, it's not just up to me it's up to her too.
I really have no idea where to go from here, it's like I've just told her to get lost & the next day I'm gana be like 'OmG hi2u!'. I think perhaps the best option is wait until I see her out again & in the meantime think of something to say. I need to talk to my sister, bah! I may be able to afford a little ass kissing as I've also met another girl but she's on vacation atm. Problem is I pulled her when I was drunk & can't really remember what she looks like biggrin: , my mate said she was quite fine though.
BTW appreciate the help & advice much karma to you guys, rock: I'm usually ok with girls but as soon as I find one I really like it's back to being a rookie eek: