The shit that is my life
 

I swear, just when I think life can turn around and get better, ( http://www.alliedassault.com/phpBB2/vie ... er&start=0 ) stupid shit always happens to me. i got a great job, a good woman and now i might have to choose between all of this. it was announced yesterday that the entire building i work in is being relocated from cypress, down to san diego(90 miles). im thinking about going with the company, but my gf pretty much made up her mind and doesnt want to go. the choice: stay with the company and move to a place where i have absolutely no roots at all, or i can stay in orange county with my friends and family....and be poor. i have an AA and have a job where i get paid $14/hr and its kind of hard to get that kind of money over here without a BA. any suggestions?

have you ever thought that it might be her way of telling you its over between the two of you.


you never know, i would move but thats me

If I was in your shoes I would pray about it and probably stay where I was. I mean, its not the easiest thing ever to make new friends or find the right girl, not that I would know. How much do you care for the girl, how much does she care for you? Look at the pros an cons, I mean is it worth haveing more money to leave the girl behind? Think long and hard about it man. Money is not happiness, love is, but what do I know...........

Pray?
BAHAHHA

true, but it depends what you believe, if everything happens for a reason then...but its a decision that has to be made, a big one that comes every 4 or 5 years you know? life altering kind of.

I accidently lost track of your situation Mad' but have ya fucked her yet?! biggrin:

Joking aside.....Thats one tough situation man. This could depend alot on how much she really means to you, do you think you could spend years and years with her, would you consider a long distance relationship? (I don't advise on this because its truly a strain on yer heart and your 'knackers').

Its down to her flexibility (perhaps send me some pics of that) and willingness to adapt to a different life in a new area

Of course as I've said, I don't know the strength and mutual opinion in your relationship so I really can only say good luck with whatever you decide to do mate.

[quote="mr.miyagi":0b560]I accidently lost track of your situation Mad' but have ya fucked her yet?! biggrin:

Joking aside.....Thats one tough situation man. This could depend alot on how much she really means to you, do you think you could spend years and years with her, would you consider a long distance relationship? (I don't advise on this because its truly a strain on yer heart and your 'knackers').

Its down to her flexibility (perhaps send me some pics of that) and willingness to adapt to a different life in a new area

Of course as I've said, I don't know the strength and mutual opinion in your relationship so I really can only say good luck with whatever you decide to do mate.[/quote:0b560]Where do you come up with this stuff?lmfao...Anyway
How serious is the relationship?if its not very, i would go for better pay...but thats just me

[quote="Animal Mother":8bf61]Pray?
BAHAHHA[/quote:8bf61]
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girlfriend?? Don't make life altering desicions on a lady, man. If she is just a "good fuck" then I'd move. If she is a nice girl, and you picture yourself getting married later then stay. It's as simple as that, dont make it hard on yourself.

[quote="[DAS REICH] Blitz":7729a][quote="mr.miyagi":7729a]I accidently lost track of your situation Mad' but have ya fucked her yet?! biggrin:

Joking aside.....Thats one tough situation man. This could depend alot on how much she really means to you, do you think you could spend years and years with her, would you consider a long distance relationship? (I don't advise on this because its truly a strain on yer heart and your 'knackers').

Its down to her flexibility (perhaps send me some pics of that) and willingness to adapt to a different life in a new area

Of course as I've said, I don't know the strength and mutual opinion in your relationship so I really can only say good luck with whatever you decide to do mate.[/quote:7729a]Where do you come up with this stuff?lmfao...Anyway
How serious is the relationship?if its not very, i would go for better pay...but thats just me[/quote:7729a]

sorry blitz. NEVER EVER TAKE RELATIONSHIP OR LIFE CHANGING ADVICE FROM THIS KID. you gotta make the choice dude. have a serious talk with your girl. then se if there are any job openings in your area. IF you can find a job great if you cant tell her she has to ome with you. How long have you been seeing eachother? if its been long enough have you thought about marrying her?

well you are in anahiem. go get a job at the angles statium selling penuts, or you can join the drug business in LBC, or better yet help the mexicans mow the lawns in san juan capistrano


if you cant handle the pressure just roll up to LA in a Royles Royce sayin "F*CK BLOODS"

problem solved.

just a few suggestions

you know CRIPs were supposed to be like the black panthers, but they got mixed up in drugs. CRIP stand for Cummunity Reconstruction in Progress. crazy huh?

ha. thats hilarious. "Yo bitch we gonan re build dis society...hey man is that some crack...give me some."
10 years later
"We were suppsoed to do what? oh shit....fuck off you ass" *shoots the guy*

just like the Vice lords of Chicago and the Fulks of Atlanta and Birmingham

How old r u? Above 30 stay, below 30 move.

No matter how old u r, you can always find a good job, but to build career the younger the better; (desirable) girl friend and friends are harder to come by when you're older, my $.02

the gangsta deciples own the VL biatch! throw them forks bitch! rock:

if she isn't into moving with you to benefit your job and your life. It proves she doens't care for you as much as you think.

exactly.

If she doesn't love you enough to go with you, than it's not worth giving up your career. Finding a new job is not a very easy thing to do, finding a new career, very, very difficult.

...or even worse, that you haven't dominated her and erroded
her individuality enough...you soft-cocked so-and-so! hake:

Man....noone stated the obvious. It's only 90 flipping miles away. What is that to you Californians, 1 hr driving time. Why can't you live where you do and drive the hr to work. Can't be that bad. Or you could move half way between both places. You'll be at work anyways either way for 8 hours out of the day or whatever how many hours you work. To me that would be my choice....if you think she maybe the one.

is it a job or a career? 14 bucks an hour is not much. Do they give you a relocation fee? Is your relationship solid or not? I just relocated after driving 100 miles a day for 18 months but I packed up the family and moved them with me (for a whole lot more that 14 bucks)

Well, it's more like a 2-2.5 hr drive. Moving anywhere in between is pretty much impossible for anyone living on a $14/hr wage. Unless he wants to go inland, which quickly becomes a hell-hole.

If I were you, I'd move. And make the occasional commute to go see her. I wouldn't break it off totally. It's not like your moving across the continent. It is possible to work things out in this situation. Just don't expect her to rip up her own roots for your sake. That's childish and selfish. But she shouldn't expect you to give up your career advancement for her sake. Just take some time with it. See each other when you guys can, discuss everything about this change as much as possible, and be completely honest with each other. Good luck.

so far here is the situation. shes been with the company for several years and she would continue to work there if it werent the drive. im considering to relocate and get an apartment down there IF i cant find a job that pays as much as i do now at least. it is a hard decision, but i think it would be a good opportunity to continue to work with Sony. Me and my girl have been going out for a month and we're pretty involved. i spend the night at her house all the time, we're pretty romantic and i made her multi orgasmic. The part that sux is that she doesnt really care as much as i thought she did. im not forcing her to choose between us or anything like that, i just wanted her to think about it and she just blew it off. quote: "its your choice, either you stay with SEL or you stay here." like thats some kind of motivation right? whatever.

like i said, weve only been dating for a month, so its not like we're getting married. i really do care about her, and i would rather stay with her than break up, but ive blown a good opportunity for a girl and i dont want it to happen again. i guess i answered my own question eh? oOo:

If that's what she really said to you, then drop her and make the move towards your career.

She could be playing some passive-aggressive mind game with you, acting all cool about how it's your choice but hoping you choose her. I say, if she isn't going to be upfront and honest, then you are wasting your time. Or, maybe she really doesn't give a shit either way. If that's the case, take the career move.

Edit: Oh and a question. Is the same gal you started going out with, that is kind of your boss? Not boss, but kind of?

Women, can't live with them, Can't bury them under the porch when your done.