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12-09-2003, 07:27 PM
I swear, just when I think life can turn around and get better, ( http://www.alliedassault.com/phpBB2/vie ... er&start=0 ) stupid shit always happens to me. i got a great job, a good woman and now i might have to choose between all of this. it was announced yesterday that the entire building i work in is being relocated from cypress, down to san diego(90 miles). im thinking about going with the company, but my gf pretty much made up her mind and doesnt want to go. the choice: stay with the company and move to a place where i have absolutely no roots at all, or i can stay in orange county with my friends and family....and be poor. i have an AA and have a job where i get paid $14/hr and its kind of hard to get that kind of money over here without a BA. any suggestions?
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12-09-2003, 07:29 PM
You may be upset that your gf isnt going, but what are you asking her to give up?
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12-09-2003, 07:32 PM
have you ever thought that it might be her way of telling you its over between the two of you.
you never know, i would move but thats me
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12-09-2003, 07:33 PM
If I was in your shoes I would pray about it and probably stay where I was. I mean, its not the easiest thing ever to make new friends or find the right girl, not that I would know. How much do you care for the girl, how much does she care for you? Look at the pros an cons, I mean is it worth haveing more money to leave the girl behind? Think long and hard about it man. Money is not happiness, love is, but what do I know...........
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12-09-2003, 07:34 PM
Pray?
BAHAHHA
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12-09-2003, 07:35 PM
true, but it depends what you believe, if everything happens for a reason then...but its a decision that has to be made, a big one that comes every 4 or 5 years you know? life altering kind of.
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12-09-2003, 07:46 PM
I accidently lost track of your situation Mad' but have ya fucked her yet?! biggrin:
Joking aside.....Thats one tough situation man. This could depend alot on how much she really means to you, do you think you could spend years and years with her, would you consider a long distance relationship? (I don't advise on this because its truly a strain on yer heart and your 'knackers').
Its down to her flexibility (perhaps send me some pics of that) and willingness to adapt to a different life in a new area
Of course as I've said, I don't know the strength and mutual opinion in your relationship so I really can only say good luck with whatever you decide to do mate.
That man is the richest whose pleasures are the cheapest - Henri David Thoreau
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12-09-2003, 08:08 PM
[quote="mr.miyagi":0b560]I accidently lost track of your situation Mad' but have ya fucked her yet?! biggrin:
Joking aside.....Thats one tough situation man. This could depend alot on how much she really means to you, do you think you could spend years and years with her, would you consider a long distance relationship? (I don't advise on this because its truly a strain on yer heart and your 'knackers').
Its down to her flexibility (perhaps send me some pics of that) and willingness to adapt to a different life in a new area
Of course as I've said, I don't know the strength and mutual opinion in your relationship so I really can only say good luck with whatever you decide to do mate.[/quote:0b560]Where do you come up with this stuff?lmfao...Anyway
How serious is the relationship?if its not very, i would go for better pay...but thats just me
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12-09-2003, 09:23 PM
[quote="Animal Mother":8bf61]Pray?
BAHAHHA[/quote:8bf61]
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12-09-2003, 09:35 PM
girlfriend?? Don't make life altering desicions on a lady, man. If she is just a "good fuck" then I'd move. If she is a nice girl, and you picture yourself getting married later then stay. It's as simple as that, dont make it hard on yourself.
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12-09-2003, 09:39 PM
[quote="[DAS REICH] Blitz":7729a][quote="mr.miyagi":7729a]I accidently lost track of your situation Mad' but have ya fucked her yet?! biggrin:
Joking aside.....Thats one tough situation man. This could depend alot on how much she really means to you, do you think you could spend years and years with her, would you consider a long distance relationship? (I don't advise on this because its truly a strain on yer heart and your 'knackers').
Its down to her flexibility (perhaps send me some pics of that) and willingness to adapt to a different life in a new area
Of course as I've said, I don't know the strength and mutual opinion in your relationship so I really can only say good luck with whatever you decide to do mate.[/quote:7729a]Where do you come up with this stuff?lmfao...Anyway
How serious is the relationship?if its not very, i would go for better pay...but thats just me[/quote:7729a]
sorry blitz. NEVER EVER TAKE RELATIONSHIP OR LIFE CHANGING ADVICE FROM THIS KID. you gotta make the choice dude. have a serious talk with your girl. then se if there are any job openings in your area. IF you can find a job great if you cant tell her she has to ome with you. How long have you been seeing eachother? if its been long enough have you thought about marrying her?
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12-09-2003, 10:21 PM
well you are in anahiem. go get a job at the angles statium selling penuts, or you can join the drug business in LBC, or better yet help the mexicans mow the lawns in san juan capistrano
if you cant handle the pressure just roll up to LA in a Royles Royce sayin "F*CK BLOODS"
problem solved.
just a few suggestions
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12-09-2003, 10:26 PM
you know CRIPs were supposed to be like the black panthers, but they got mixed up in drugs. CRIP stand for Cummunity Reconstruction in Progress. crazy huh?
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12-09-2003, 10:37 PM
ha. thats hilarious. "Yo bitch we gonan re build dis society...hey man is that some crack...give me some."
10 years later
"We were suppsoed to do what? oh shit....fuck off you ass" *shoots the guy*
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12-09-2003, 10:38 PM
just like the Vice lords of Chicago and the Fulks of Atlanta and Birmingham
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