Alliedassault - View Single Post - Thinking So Hard it hurts..need a decision

Totenkopf · 08-02-2003, 09:05 PM

Wow....I had to reply to this one, been awhile since I've been on.

Seriously, you're young....if you are already looking at other women, then Mel isn't the one. Don't settle for this already. You will be more stuck than you are now..never able to get out. Then you will begin to resent Mel, take out your anger on her, or worse the child.

The one thing I have learned in my 28 (nearly 29) years is to be honest in a relationship. Tell her the truth, you're young, you are having doubts, it just moved too quickly. See where the dialogue goes. If this girl is willing to do something stupid because you leave her then she is obviously unstable to begin with (WARNING!!). She has a kid that she needs to concentrate on.

The motto I have come to live by....it's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.

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Totenkopf is Offline Senior Member Posts: 1,019 Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Heading towards my couch for a free lap dance	08-02-2003, 09:05 PM Wow....I had to reply to this one, been awhile since I've been on. Seriously, you're young....if you are already looking at other women, then Mel isn't the one. Don't settle for this already. You will be more stuck than you are now..never able to get out. Then you will begin to resent Mel, take out your anger on her, or worse the child. The one thing I have learned in my 28 (nearly 29) years is to be honest in a relationship. Tell her the truth, you're young, you are having doubts, it just moved too quickly. See where the dialogue goes. If this girl is willing to do something stupid because you leave her then she is obviously unstable to begin with (WARNING!!). She has a kid that she needs to concentrate on. The motto I have come to live by....it's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.