do those of that work have them? we do each year. They are always at 4 star hotels which is fine but Im a blue jeans and tshirt kinda guy. I hate those uppercrust types that seem to dominate these festivities. I just try to do 1 thing, not be the one everyone talks about after the party. It seems like there is always 1 or 2 guys/girls that get too drunk. Ours is this Saturday.