Help with a friend - Page 2

newt. · 08-12-2005, 03:59 AM

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Originally Posted by guarnere

She sounds like a cunt...move on...

...oh and when she gets her stuff, make sure you piss on all of it.

yea and shit inside some plastic bags

Zoner · 08-12-2005, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Tripper

Tell her shes being a fucking child and a bitch about it. Explain to her how hard it was to reveal to her, and how long you've been hiding it, then tell her the way she acted was fucked up and maybe you were wrong about her.

That's when you punch her in the face and tell her to fuck off.

Sticky situation, I know man. It sucks - sorry to hear.

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Like Gretzky said "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

You took a risk and it didn't pay off. At least it's out there now. Maybe she'll get over the initial shock of it and warm up to the idea of exploring a relationship.

Then again, maybe she won't. It's not the end of the world. Kudos for having the balls to tell her how you feel.

KTOG · 08-12-2005, 08:29 AM

You should have completely stopped talking to her in general. This way it looks as if something was wrong with her. Then she would get worried and be your shoulder to cry on. Then you could use your tears as lube when you ram your dick in her eye socket. happy:

Eight Ace · 08-12-2005, 08:30 AM

you were right to be honest Mad, no matter what, don't be angry with her
and dont blame her, these things happen or they dont...best laid plans cant help
if feelings are not equal or ready....you put it on the table so more power to you.

Doctor Duffy · 08-12-2005, 08:40 AM

I avoid all female specimens.

Merlin122 · 08-12-2005, 08:50 AM

if she was ready to get up and leave over something like that, then she probably wasn't your friend to begin with. A real friendship has to be able to weather things like this. Tell that bitch to grow the fuck up or fall down and never get back up.

RaNgeR · 08-12-2005, 12:29 PM

Trip and zoner said it perfectly. Its hard to add to that..but may I ask what happened with you dating your co-worker years ago? That was probably my favorite thread.

Simo Häyhä · 08-12-2005, 12:50 PM

The best way to deal with women who act like this is to cut off all communications with her, and pretend that nothing bothers you.
Like when you're on AIM take anything off about her in your profile and put up happy away messages. She'll see this and realise it dosent bother you and that will really piss her off

trust me this shit works

Nyck · 08-12-2005, 02:44 PM

I told you my thoughts last night when you asked me on AIM. So im just taking this opportunity to up my post count.

PS at least she didnt sell your shit on ebay.

Madmartagen · 08-13-2005, 09:48 AM

^yeah thats her, shes the one who sold the jacket i bought for her. I blew her off for a month or two but we reconciled and so here we are...

and Ranger, that girl and i split up last year cause she wanted to stay with sony and i wasnt. she moved down there and we kinda lost communication. it wasnt a total in love with relationship, we were mostly friends with benefits. we kept in contact for a little bit after she left, but not anymore, we've both moved on. that really didnt hurt cause we just went our seperate ways.

this situation is different. she is completely overreacting and is cutting me off because i disrupted her little life and the order she has her friends in. if someone disrupts her world, her only way to deal with it is to let them go. her loss i guess, but the thing that makes me so mad is that i know she is being irrational and she doesnt fully understand the situation. she is making an unimformed decision and i cant seem to get her to understand. she wont listen and she wont toy with any alternate idea she has. i cant believe we are ending like this, it is so retarded, but shes supposed to come over and pick up her stuff and thats supposed to be the last time we talk or see eachother. this is the most uncomfortable and weirdest appointment i have ever had to make...how does anyone get ready for this? i would much rather have her give me real reasons as to why she doesnt like me, but instead all i get are half truths and one sided speculation on her take on this situation. i want to do some last minute fixing, but i do have some amount of pride in me and i do not want to beg her to be my friend.

08-13-2005, 10:04 AM

Like Simo said, if you act normal about it and not seem desperate, it will annoy the hell out of her. My last girlfriend was a total money drain, whenever we went out she kept ordering the most expensive shit and so on...When we broke up, she said I don't meet her needs financially...I was about to burst out saying "FUCK YOU WHOR YOU DRAIN ALL OF MY $$" but calmly said "It's okay, you don't meet my needs sexually"...ohhh that pissed her off soooo much.

This is also why I am single and probably will stay single (sex yes, commitment no).

Arkan · 08-13-2005, 11:46 AM

I'm not saying to copy my idea but this is what Arkan would do.

I'd have all her stuff packed for her at the door. When she comes over, i'd say "Your shit is right there" as i'm pointing to her belongings. Then i'd say "I just want to thank you. Thank you for not wasting anymore than the 6yrs you already did on this fake friendship. Please hurry because your replacement will be here shortly"

......and that is it. I may help her by using my foot to slide her shit out side the door, then i'd go inside and flick on the TV and watch spongebob or something.

Don't let this ungreatful cunt of a woman ruin you. She really did you a big favor by cutting you loose. Now it's time for you to run, and run free.

Sgt. Paine · 08-13-2005, 11:50 AM

Dont give her shit back

Anita_Man · 08-13-2005, 12:11 PM

Sorry to hear that, she sounds like a self centered bitch.

Madmartagen · 08-13-2005, 01:01 PM

[quote="Sgt. Paine":ecfe6]Dont give her shit back[/quote:ecfe6]

lol, i was thinking about selling her shit on ebay like she did to me, but that jacket was a gift and its prolly a crime to hold someones passport from them.

shes been very cold to me since we had our talk, not like herself at all. its like shes trying to be mad at me. i dont wanna play that game and yeah arkan, i told her to get her ass over here and pick up her shit. i am going to have it ready by the door when she gets here tonight and i want to be very curt and short with what i say. course, the other part of me has a problem with letting things go and wants to leave some window of opportunity that we may talk again some day. agh, thats it. im gonna just tell her to get her shit and gtfo and grow up. thx for the advice guys, ill let you know what happens.

<3 you all